I’m really not trying to pick on my husband — honest I’m not. He just makes it so easy for me!!! I really do want to honor him. He is the head of this household and is a wonderful daddy, husband, and provider … but (you heard that one coming didn’t you?) …

This morning, our daughter climbed in our bed at 4:11am. Of course, once I’m awake — that’s it — I must get up.

As soon as her breathing got heavy, I so carefully slid off my side of the bed, tip toed oh so easily so that nothing would pop or creak … and gently made it to our den. A little while later I heard my husband banging around in the shower. I heard the big bar of soap CLUNK in the floor — then came the sound of the sliding glass shower door slamming into the frame — then “Boaz” yelling
, talking loudly (he has always been around loud equipment and doesn’t know how loud he talks) on his Nextel (yes, like a walkie talkie that goes BEEP BEEP each time he touches the little button on the side)! I just assumed our daughter was wide awake because he wasn’t making the slightest EFFORT to be quiet.

I heard him scrape all of his change off of the dresser! Along with the change of course are his KEYS, POCKET KNIFE, EAR PLUGS … everything a good ol’ boy carries in his pockets all day. Nothing quiet mind you! Still, BEEP BEEP then blah blah blah as he talks with the NC DOT about the road conditions (snowing here). “Surely Princess is wide awake and playing with our cat” I thought!

Then dear hubby stomps in here, walks passed me and goes to let the dog out — forgetting to turn off the alarm! SCREECHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! Then after he does that, he sweeps up something and drops the broom with the metal handle on the hard wood (looking) floors. CLANG!
So cleaverly I said, “Boaz, would you like to break some dishes on the floor before you leave?” I don’t think he appreciated that comment. Can we say BULL IN A CHINA SHOP?!?!?!

Ok, someone send me all of the scriptures about honoring my mate — my man — my spiritual leader. Oh my …

And all of this happened before 5:45am. Oh, and by the way — it is 6:18am and Sarah is still sleeping! Amazing.